Abusive relationships almost never begin as violent but emotional or mental abuse is still abuse. We want to help you recognize the signs so you or your friends can get out or get the help you need.

Early signs of a potentially abusive relationship include…

Isolating – wants to always be alone with you, keeps you from friends or activities, makes you feel dependent, tries to interrupt or end friendships

Jealousy – possessive or insecure, fishes for compliments often around other people, gets jealous or condemns you for talking to or spending time with others, feels insulted easily

Quick Involvement – comes on strong, pressures for a deep relationship quickly, flattery, obsessive behavior

Escalating signs include…

Controlling – keeps tabs on you at all times, gets mad or insecure when you don’t respond right away, suggests how you should dress, talk or act, makes decisions for you

Humiliation – publicly or privately insults you, makes you feel bad about yourself, offers back-handed compliments, preys on your insecurity

Punishing – makes you believe everything is your fault, shames you, makes you feel sorry for them, never apologies and makes an excuse for bad behavior

Clear signs include…

Sexual Demands or Abuse – pushes you past your comfort zone or boundaries, pressures you, only considers their own needs, punishes you for not complying, forces you, sexually abuses you

Ongoing Emotional and Mental Abuse – breaks down your self-esteem, preys on your insecurities, berates you, makes you feel ugly or unloved, makes you cry often, makes you feel worthless and alone

Physical Abuse – shoves or pushes you, slaps you, hits you or any other physical assault on your body

If you know or even feel like you are in an abusive relationship, you can call this confidential hotline 24/7 for help. https://www.thehotline.org/

If you are pregnant or think you are pregnant and in an abusive relationship, we can help. All our services are completely confidential and even if your partner comes with you, we can provide you a safe place where you can talk. Nothing will ever be repeated or shared without your consent.

No one can force you to have an abortion. We will help you learn your rights and what options are available to you.  Send us a message or give us a call today: 423-892-0803.

Choices Chattanooga is a faith-based 501(c)(3) non-profit organization in the state of Tennessee. All services are confidential and free of charge. Walk-ins are welcome but ultrasounds are available by appointments only. Choices does not refer for or perform abortions.